NEWLANDS, CAPE TOWN
MARRIAGE COUNSELLING, COUPLES THERAPY & PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
From experience in my former practices in Singapore and Australia, and indeed in my personal life, I’ve seen how life presents us with limitless opportunities to grow, heal and learn – moving to a new country, retrenchment, marriage, divorce, a new baby, a career change, relationship difficulties, parenting challenges, the loss of a loved one…
LOVE IS THE END GAME
I have learnt that rather than the heady love that has us believing that we are "in love," that true, meaningful and sustainable love for someone comes as a result of respect, delight, responsibility, trust, tenderness, disruption, energy, freedom, reciprocity, resilience, friendship, listening, passion and belief. Love in a relationship is indeed like the last move on a chess board. It's not about immediate gratification. It's the end game - to be relished as a significant milestone.
"Things do not change, we change."
If we have not acquired the coping mechanisms to pull through life's events, we might be overwhelmed with feelings of depression, abandonment, mistrust, anxiety, hurt, anger, inadequacy, low self esteem and so on.
In the safety of a confidential setting, counselling offers us the opportunity to discover our own resources, to rekindle our relationships and to learn the life skills and acquire the relationship allies that help us navigate and thrive through the challenges of life.
I offer one-on-one sessions, offering relationship building blocks to help couples overcome the obstacles that hold them back from experiencing really good relationships.
MARRIAGE AND COUPLES COUNSELLING
MARRIAGE AND COUPLES COUNSELLING
Sustaining successful relationships
A relationship that hits troubled water can have a negative pervasive effect across the lives of the couple as well as those affected by the relationship - including the social and professional environments in which they move. Research shows that strong, stable relationships and role modelling are key to a healthy society. Counselling support will not only benefit the couple, but also their children – helping the family system to establish boundaries and skills that will help them navigate through the ups and downs of relating.
Here, marriage and relationship support is unbiased and open-minded, aimed at providing help and information that can help you to establish and sustain a successful relationship with your partner regardless of the stage or nature of your relationship. Common areas covered in couple’s counselling include infidelity, abuse, multi-cultural challenges, betrayal/trust issues, obsessive behaviour, boundary issues, conflict resolution, intimacy and sexual issues, communication difficulties, parenting and financial matters.
Confidential, supportive, respectful
I am a Relationship Counsellor with a Master’s Degree in Counselling from the University of South Australia and certified practitioner in Accelerated Behavioural Cognitive Therapy (ABCT) which helps combat depression, anxiety and stress. I am a Certified Relationship Educator (CRE) and a professional member of both the American Counselling Association (ACA) and of the Natural Healers Association.
MAKE AN APPOINTMENT
Kindly phone ON 0747 055 971 or email me to set up an appointment.
“Relationships need a true north, a heading that incorporates the wants, dreams and intentions of both personalities, providing a pulling force packed with direction and purpose.”
Lauren recently published her book on successful relationships
My first book called ‘Wanted – How to Create a Relationship that Really Works' has recently been published. It focusses on allies, opponents and the skills needed in a relationship and is a great back-up tool to keep us on track in relationships. Now available through Amazon.com in both paperback and kindle. Plus find FREE downloadable questionnaires and exercises from my book at my author's website: www.lsclucas.com. Happy reading!
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